Monogamy

Monogamy

Monogamy (/məˈnɒɡəmi/ mə-NOG-ə-mee) is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time.

Is she/he thinking of someone else?

Monogamy.. Is it a myth? Is it an old belief?

Nowadays where everyone has his own style and uniqueness with many options, with much more flaws, can you stick to only one person and be satisfied?

Is it enough anymore?

The rush of the new beginnings, the adrenaline spike of the first meeting, the first kiss and the unfolding of the new person.

When all of this is gone and you start having it with someone else, is it wrong? Or the sequence of life?

That one person who makes you love them more and more as time goes by.

Who find something new about you and about the relationship to be excited about, being able to see you in a new light.

Is that a fairytale?

All my books have this one person. The amazingness of that person hits you each book more than the one before. It is a lifetime indeed. They choose one another with each fight they have, either against the world or between themselves. They choose that one person over and over again.

So it is a conscience decision, it is a choice!

Are we weak willed?

To succumb to the desires of the unknown.. To fly as a moth to the flame, even though we are fully aware that it will kill us

Something inside us dies each time we crumble to the new beginning.

Because we don’t consider that we are letting all the benefits of being comfortable with someone, of getting past the I-want-to-know-you and everything-you-say-is-smart-and-sexy phase.

There is so much more after that.. The knowledge inside and out you have of that person, their darkest deepest secret and fear that they trusted you enough to blurt one night after a rather loving coitus.

The dreams of his future and how he really sees his life and sees himself, alone late at night,

How he confront his flaws and shortcomings, his regrets, his achievements.

The extra push he let you push him towards his dreams.

That is the keyword; Let you.

He chose to let you in.. to believe in you

And you go on and stray for a shinier gem. When he is right here, waiting for you to polish off the dirt that life buries him in.

Once you go seek the greener garden, you realise its not as green. It has its warms and earth dirt all over it, but deep inside.

And so on and so on… vicious circle.

This subject has been on my mind for a very long time and would love to know what you think of it...

Thanks for reading...